Wednesday, October 27, 2010

How Can I Get In A Relationship With The Right Woman ?

Many single men dream to find their soulmate.
How could you get the right woman you want in your life? Many men fear rejection from women.Here are some tips that will make a relationship easy and fun.
First of all do not think that you are looking for a hard missionand you have a date in certain age.
Let the relationship comes in the right time and whenever you are ready for it.
women usually like confident men who know what they want and down to earth.
Take care of your self and your hygine.
Women do not like bad breath or dirty cloth.
Make sure you brush your teeth and wear deodrant every day .
Do not act a different personality or say things that you do not like to satisfy your woman.
Be your self and be gentle and decent with your woman.
Do not act like a certain movie or say a certain romantic phrases to your girl that might make you a fool or a man from a different century for some women.
Do not save your money when you date your woman like buying a drink for your self  only and not inviting your woman.
Do not embarass  your girl by chewing food while you open your mouth or burp loudly,your social behavior and attitude plays a main role for a successful date.
Decide what you really want to do with your girl and ask her before that to share her opinion.
Wear perfume and decent clean clothes.
Speak in general subjects until you get to know your woman so close.
Do not ask for any sexual contact at the first date most women do not like that until they get to know you better.
Do not drink too much alcohol or do drugs on your date.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

How To Pass An Abusive Relationship ?

An abusive relationship has a major affect on our daily life . If we were victims and did not seek a therapy ,the abusive relationship might have side affects which will lead to depression.
The human's strength comes from the mind and concentration.We as human can pass the bad and bitter memories by keeping our self busy and concentrate in a different thing.It does not sound easy for many people to do that method because they refuse to give themself a chance to try it.There are some tips that will help you to pass an abusive relationship:
Do not keep the abusive pictures or belongings.
Try to get rid of every thing that reminds you of the abuser.
Walk every day with a walkman or mp3 and listen to music and songs you like .
Think about TV shows you like and watch them daily.
Search the internet for your favourite movies or songs or TV shows.
Hang out with your friends to places and cafe shops and talk about different subjects.
Give your self a break from dating or joining a dating website.
Think of a sport and practice it daily.
Go to museums and library to keep your self busy.
write on piece of paper your goals in life for the next few years.
Do not discuss or talk with your friends about what happened during the abusive relationship and start a a new page in your life.
Cry at night alone when you need it so you feel comfortable for the next day .

Does my ex boyfriend still love me ?

Falling in love is not an easy thing . All of us might had a love experience which was good or bad , however, sometimes the way that things we expected it to happen , it did not happen the way we like it . Specially in a relationship, we did  expect and hope to  find the right partner who could be a soulmate and a friend at the same time.We might had a bitter relationship in the past that gave us power and strength for the next choice. How to find the real soulmate ? Thats not an easy question . We might thought about online dating websites or  going to clubs  but we did not find the right person. you might had kids and exchange visitation with your ex boyfriend or ex husband and you still had memories and emotions but you are not sure what to do . You still have questions every time you see you ex husband or boyfriend in your mind ? Does he still love me ? Does he still want me back ? Sometimes it is very difficult to get answers right away , depending on the circumstances and how often  do you talk to your ex boyfriend personally ? There is some signs that will let you know the answers and once you put together your past experience and these signs , you will be able to know if your ex boy friend still want you or not ? this is only on one condition that you still want your ex boyfriend or husband  back and there was no abuse history or harsh life experience which will stop you  from gaining him back.

You will feel it from the way that your ex boyfriend  talk to you and from his eyes and the way he looks at you deeply . His voice tune when he talks to you if it is in soft tone that means he wants you still and respect you, also pay close attention to how he choose his words with you . His fights with you could be a sign that he still wants you and he wants to show off his personality over you so you could have a fight then he will get a chance to calm you down and apologize. Look at the way he looks at you  when you leave him , if he still stare at you and does not leave till you go that might be a sign of respect and that he still loves you. If you ex boyfriend mentioned something did you see any one after me ? or bring that up , that might be a sign of jealousy and curiousity. If your ex boyfriend shakes a little bit when he hands you an object that might be a sign that you make him happy and he is still shy . If you ex boyfriend mentioned something like we will work it out or trust me i am a good man or i will be here whenever you need me or call me if you need any thing or send me emails i love reading your emails that might be a sign that he still cares .

Generally , men are different than women . Women they have their nature in hiding their emotions but men they hide their emotions too but in a different way . Bad experience make us stronger and stubborn but does not stop us from trying again  because no body is perfect.